Hello, dear ones!
Today is the last day of summer camp for my older kiddo. Iโve always considered the end of camp to be the beginning of the end of summer vacation, so this is usually the point in August when I start grumbling to myself that I didnโt spend enough time enjoying the nice weather or taking time to relax or going on adventures. Being an adult really is just that endless slog, huh?
Still, the lovely thing about summer, at least here in the mountains of Western Massachusetts where I live, is that even if I donโt get outside to enjoy it, beautiful things are still happening. Kids are still making friends at camp. Raspberries are still blooming in the garden. New murals are popping up downtown. Chalk art still appears on the sidewalks. Tomatoes are ripening on the vines.
Little bits of creative energy, from people and from nature, happening every day.



your friday four!
this weekโs highlights on creating for good
1. โHereโs the Scoop: A Reading List on Ice Creamโ (Elizabeth Blackwell for Longreads)
Some people say that summer begins on the Solstice. Some say summer begins when schools let out. I, personally, think that summer begins the first time I get an ice cream cone.

soco creamery my beloved
So you can imagine my delight when this Longreads reading list popped up for me yesterday. Each of the articles and essays Blackwell includes in her roundup celebrate not just the history of this (in my humble opinion) pinnacle of culinary perfection, but also the genuine human creativity thatโs gone into this delicious treat for hundreds of years.
People have been eating iced desserts since approximately 4000 B.C.E., but new flavors are still appearing every year, and people are continuously finding new ways to write about it. In a publishing landscape where there are genuine debates and organized pile-on campaigns about whether or not someone owns a particular set of facts, itโs lovely to remember that actually, itโs wonderful when multiple people love the same thing so much that they all want to tell other people about it.

via Longreads
What single topic could you write an entire essay about? What makes that particular topic so interesting to you? What is it tied to? (A memory? An experience? A person or place? What emotions do you associate with the topic? (Is it something fun or enjoyable, such that learning more about it makes you happy? Is it something that sparks your curiosity? Is it something driven by fear or anger or worry? If so, does learning more about it make you feel better or worse?) What do you think that topic says about you?
Prompt: Make your own โreading listโ on the topic you focused on above, aiming for 4-6 articles, essays, podcasts, videos, etc โ ideally ones you havenโt found before! Take some time to explore each one. What do you learn? How do you feel? Create about it.
2. โWhy bravery and heartbreak are essential to organizingโ (Hannah Sassaman for Waging Nonviolence, reviewing For Louder Days: Reaching Beyond a Politics of Powerlessness by Yotam Marom)
One of the most exhausting parts of political moments like this one is the constant reminder that weโre undertaking a marathon, not signing up for a sprint. Whatโs needed right now isnโt just people to turn up at a few โNo Kingsโ rallies, go to a single postcard-writing event, or attend a webinar about local elections. What we need โ fortunately and unfortunately โ is people who can identify one issue or action and then stick with it.
Anyone whoโs ever worked in the nonprofit sector is familiar with the idea of mission creep, when an organizationโs work starts to expand further and further out from its original stated scope. For movements and organizers, that means staying focused on what can realistically be done with the resources you have, in the moment youโre in, even when that means making some really hard choices.
In the chapter called โGood Strategy and Telling the Truth,โ Marom tells a story about CAAAV โ a seminal working-class Asian organization working on housing across New York City. In 2021, CAAAVโs leaders decided to pull back from some beautiful, hopeful organizing in order to choose transformative campaigns that could make them truly powerful.
The choice was heartbreaking. Instead of continuing to build committees of working-class Chinese, Bengali and Korean tenants in Queensbridge Houses, a public housing development in Queens, they made the choice to kill that project and throw their weight โ and all their Chinese organizers โ into an under-resourced but fast-growing campaign in Chinatown.
Marom tells the story with reverence and respect as CAAAV faced the loss and grief that would come, as they chose to abandon some potential members and lose staff to chase real strategy and power. Marom tells us why taking on those losses and grief were worth it for CAAAV, and what became possible because of their bravery. Because CAAAV leaders were wise and human enough to close a chapter and invest their resources elsewhere, they won big victories, and learned that winning and moving to offense would transform conditions for every working-class person in the city. This was a fundamental shift in their strategy. By choosing to focus, CAAAV and its sibling group CAAAV Voice were in a strong position to win giant campaigns and organize major new bases. It also enabled them to work with other brilliant immigrant organizations like DRUM Beats and the Democratic Socialists of America to back a long-shot socialist mayoral candidate โ Zohran Mandani โ who could make the vision of the people real.

via Waging Nonviolence: Occupy Wall Street demonstrators converge in Times Square, New York City on Oct. 15, 2011. (Getty/Mario Tama)
For individuals, those hard choices mean, as Sassaman writes, โ[saying] no to almost everything so we can say yes to what we truly need to do to win.โ That means being realistic about our limitations, as well as our strengths. If youโre a single working parent of small kids, you probably canโt commit to regular actions that place you at increased risk of arrest, or that require a consistent in-person presence at events during peak dinner-and-bedtime hours. If youโre a person with chronic illnesses that can flare up unexpectedly, itโs probably not a great idea to sign up for regular shifts driving others to appointments or picking up urgently-needed supplies.
But when weโre not spending time stretching ourselves thin trying to do everything or struggling to fit our strengths and schedules into incompatible actions, we can invest more heavily into the areas where we can have the most impact. If your issue is voting rights, maybe that looks like a weekly phone banking shift or a weekly voter registration tabling event, rather than both. If your issue is immigration, maybe that looks like volunteering for an ICE-spotting hotline, rather than trying to trying to fit being a court observer into your schedule.
Itโs not that the choices arenโt difficult to make โ itโs about understanding that strategy comes before ego. Saying โyesโ to everything might feel good in the moment, but if it leads to burnout within three months, those good feelings wonโt help anyone.
Weโre in this for the long haul. Letโs do our best to stay in the game.
What hard choices have you had to make in order to feel less powerless in the ways youโre showing up in this current moment? What are you saying โnoโ to, so that you can make a bigger difference when youโre actually able to say โyesโ? How do you feel when you have to turn something down? What helps you in those moments? When you think about the movement(s) youโre involved in, how do you feel about the way they function, strategize, and move towards change? What, if anything, would you do differently?
Prompt: Think back to a moment when you had to choose how to invest your time or energy into one particular movement, issue, or action. How did you feel about the choice you made in the moment? How do you feel about it now? What might be different in your life today if you had chosen differently? Create about it.
3. โThis interactive atlas captures more than a thousand literary journeys.โ (Brittany Allen for Literary Hub)
Iโve written before about how much I love it when people use technology to create something fun and interactive for no other reason than the love of the game. The newest example Iโve found? Reading Maps, an interactive database where visitors can explore and recreate fictional journeys from literature.

Dracula Daily just got a visual component!
This project is the brainchild of Aires LoutsarisโUK-based SEO consultant by day, whimsical cartographer by night. Loutsaris has spent the past few years building his free interactive atlas, which includes both intercontinental epics (see: Moby Dick) and local meanders like Mrs. Dalloway.
He and his site developer Fabio Moreira were inspired by a craving for stakes that transcend the page.
โOdysseus crossed a real sea. The Pequod sailed real water. Phileas Foggโs eighty days ran on real railways,โ Loutsaris writes on the site of his inspiration. โHowever when you read a book, all that geography stays locked in your head. Once you close the cover, it goes with it.โ
Enter Reading Maps, a highly bespoke piece of fan service. On the site, readers can request a route from their favorite novel (or film!), and the team will set to work making it real.
Leo Tolstoy famously said, โAll great literature is one of two stories: a man goes on a journey or a stranger comes to town.โ If thatโs the case, then mapping tools like this are a new way to look at half the great stories ever written โ and engage with, if you decide to play some mapping games or fill out your own little journey passport. Readers can also submit requests to the site with new books for Loutsaris and Moreira to adapt into maps.
Because what theyโve figured out with this project is one of my favorite aspects of creativity in general: That creative works are always so much more fun when theyโre shared.
Is there a fictional journey that stands out in your memory? What is it about that journey that made it memorable? What did the creators of that journey do to make it feel real? Was there anything you learned from that as a creator yourself? How does that fictional journey relate to the most memorable journey youโve ever taken in real life? What makes them similar? What makes them different? What did the characters in the fictional journey learn that echoed in your own experience as a real-life journeyer? How do you feel about the phrase, โItโs about the journey, not the destination?โ
Prompt: Draw a visual map of your own most meaningful journey, drawing specifically from your sensory memories. What do you remember seeing? Hearing? Smelling? Feeling? (Tasting?) What emotions come up for you when you recall those experiences? Create about it.
4. โThe Conlangersโ Artโ (Annalee Hewitz for The Believer)
My dad introduced me to Star Wars when I was about five years old, after I saw him watching Star Trek and grumpily asked why there were no princesses in space. That first viewing of A New Hope was probably babyโs first bi awakening (because obviously I wasnโt going to choose between Han Solo and Princess Leia) but also my first exposure to fictional languages โ also called โconstructed languagesโ or simply โconglangs.โ
Creating a new language reยญquires a very specific form of consciousness. William Faulkner wrote compelling and gorgeous novels without knowing the first thing about the subjunctive mood, but comparable conlang geniuses cannot build a syntax withยญout considering everything from verb positions to whether they will grant speakers access to a derogatory prefix. For this reason, conlangers tend to be people who are already imยญmersed in specialized forms of symยญbolic communication. They are professional and amateur linguists, logicians, mathematicians, engineers, and software developers. They find elegance in a line of computer code; they feel the aesthetic power of calculus.
And they are all, in one way or another, idealists.
Whether a conlanger has contributed new idioms to Klingon in order to participate in a favorite science-fiction fantasy, or invented a tongue designed solely to reflect womenโs consciousness, he or she is expressing an implicit wish to change the world with language.
Part of what makes the creation of a conlang so interesting is that thereโs always a philosophy behind it. Language development, like every other kind of creative work, doesnโt happen in a vacuum. Itโs always (no pun intended here) in conversation with other works, whether thatโs with โrealโ languages or other conlangs โ or both:
In the early 1980s, dismayed by the continuation of sexism in U.S. culture, Elgin began writing an SF trilogy about a future earth where oppressed women invent a secret language for making their subversive plans for global revolution against their patriarchal masters. Rich with strange and compelling details, the first two novels in the seriesโNative Tongue and The Judas Roseโexplore the lives of an elite class of male-dominated Linguists who control interplanetary trade with aliens whose languages theyโve devoted their lives to mastering. Unlike women from other walks of life, female Linguists are permitted to work (as translators) alongside their male counterparts. Itโs among these women that the dissident language Lรกadan is developed. Gradually itโs transmitted into the wider female population at special womenโs church services that the men scorn.
What makes Lรกadan a perfect womenโs language, according to Elgin, is that it requires absolute emotional honesty from its ยญspeakers. There are prefixes for every first-person speech act that inform your listener whether what youโre saying is a joke, a lesson, a fearful statement, a loving statement, or any number of other moods. โThere are many things that women using English have to convey with body language and tone of voice, but these are lexicalized in Lรกadan,โ explains Elgin. โThereโs a problem in English of verbal abusers saying something awful and then saying, โI was only joking.โ You canโt get away with that so easily in Lรกadan.โ English, according to Elgin, is a โweaselyโ language; Lรกadan fixes that.
The languages we create, Hewitz says, whether for fiction or computer coding or just for fun, always tell us something about their creators โ just like any other form of creative work.

circular Gallifreyan from Doctor Who
What role does language play in your life, both creatively and otherwise? In what ways is language (whether written, spoken, or experienced) something youโre consciously aware of? How much time in a given day or week do you spend thinking about the way you use and experience language, and when do those conscious moments occur? Are there ways that you experiment, play, or get creative with language, either in your creative work or just in everyday life? What does that look like?
Prompt: Choose a favorite book and pull out a particularly well-loved paragraph (or stanza, if itโs poetry). Spend some time experiencing it on a linguistic level. Read it out loud, paying attention to the flow of vowel sounds, the sensation of consonants. Experiment with different types of inflection and intonation. Look for places where language is used literally versus figuratively. Look for idioms. See if there are places where words or phrases have been borrowed from other languages. What do you notice? What changes in your experience or interpretation of the text? Create about it.
updates from shelly: less than โจ2๏ธโฃโจ weeks until Love Me Like a Rock Song hits shelves!

I am so so so so excited for this weird, funny, grief-y, sexy romance to find its way into your hands. If youโre looking for a way to help make the launch as successful as possible (and I hope you are!), here are a few things you can do:
๐ Preorder Love Me Like a Rock Song from your favorite indie bookstore! If you want a signed copy, order from my friends at High Five Books โ 10% of the cover price will go to my local trans community organization, Translate Gender! ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ
๐ Enter to win a finished copy from Goodreads (runs until 8/31!)
๐ RSVP to join me at a book launch event in Pittsfield, MA, Providence, RI, or Brooklyn, NY
๐ Add Love Me Like a Rock Song to your TBR shelf on Goodreads, Storygraph, or Pagebound
๐ Leave a review of Love Me Like a Rock Song if youโve read an advanced copy (seriously, these are so so so helpful!)
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The next Friday Four will be coming to you right after book launch day, but youโll see me in your inbox a few more times between then and now sharing some more sneak peeks and insider info!
See you next time,
๐ Shelly


