💜[10/31] the creativity for good friday five

this week’s highlights on creativity for good

HAPPY HALLOWEEN, SPOOKY FRIENDS!

LET’S DO THE MASH etc etc etc

Y’all, I will be real, I am tired. I’m on week two of toddler-wrought plague, the world is <gestures vaguely at everything>, and I’m like 80% sure the guy who just bought the house down the street from me is a cop. I’M NOT LOVING IT.

But! The horrors persist, and so do we. This past week, I got to be part of a (seasonally-appropriate) panel on paranormal romance, had my edit call for AMERICAN GOLEM (title possibly subject to change, but ooooh babies this book is gonna be so juicy and I cannot wait for y’all to read it), and even did some initial work on my still-untitled third book project, which is going to give spooky an entirely new definition.

One of the biggest things on my mind this week has been the impending loss of SNAP benefits, which will kick in tomorrow unless the government decides to get its shit together (unlikely). Many people who are much smarter and more connected than I am have put together some incredible lists of ways to help your neighbors who might be impacted, but here are a few quick resources for people looking to take actions of any size:

  • Check out Dollar Store Dinners or other similar channels for quick recipes that you can package together and drop off at your local food bank, or share directly with people you know. Rebecca Down of Dollar Tree Dinners put together a Google Drive folder of recipes for easy access — check them out here!

  • If you have a Little Free Library, consider turning it into a Little Free Pantry!

📣 IF YOU HAVE A LITTLE FREE LIBRARY TURN IT INTO A COMMUNITY PANTRY ASAP IF YOU ARE ABLE

— Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg (@theradr.bsky.social)2025-10-30T01:03:14.365Z
  • Are you the kind of person who cooks more than you need? Now’s a great time to start putting that instinct to work. You made too much soup? Text a friend to see if they need dinner for their kids this week. You got into the zone and made two lasagnas instead of one? See if your neighbor wants to freeze it. You just learned how to make bread? Channel that new-skill energy into loafs for everyone on your block. Every action makes a difference.

  • Finally, if you want to support your local food bank: give them money! Food banks have deals with vendors and suppliers. You can buy a can of soup for $1, but they could turn that dollar into food that would cost you $10 or more at the grocery store.

Halloween is tonight, but the season of horror we’re already seeing around us isn’t going to be over anytime soon. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t lean into joy where we can. Grab a costume. Put on the Monster Mash (but maybe not on Spotify, since they’re running ads for the gestapo). Hand some candy out to your local kids. Hand some candy out to your local adults.

Be silly. Be joyful. Stay strong. And as always:

spotted in my friend’s witchy oddities store in Chicago đŸ‘»

— Kim Kelly (@kimkelly.bsky.social)2025-10-28T03:12:38.370Z

your friday five!

this week’s highlights on creating for good

  1. We Have to Move (Kelly Hayes for her own newsletter, “Organizing My Thoughts”)

I’m a shameless Kelly Hayes fan — if you’ve been reading this newsletter for any length of time, you’ve probably seen me quoting her work. She’s also been on the front lines protesting ICE in Chicago. This week, her newsletter focused on what that’s been like, and the exhausting, frustrating, sometimes overwhelming feelings of we’re too late and it’s not enough and what are we going to do now?

But, she reminds us — and this is the important bit — there is always a next right thing that can be done. More specifically, she writes:

Sometimes, you have to take a beat and reset your nervous system, rather than remaining activated and on edge at all times. This is a long struggle, and we have to move as sustainably as we can. But we cannot stop pushing forward because things feel irreparably fucked. 

There is no moment when all is lost, and the credits roll. There is no cue that we can all throw our hands up now and give up on each other. No matter how upsetting the headline, no matter how frustrating the organizing meeting, no matter how pompous and arrogant that one guy was, no matter how tired we get of this bullshit or of each other—if you’re still here, feeling, thinking, and hoping for a way out of this, if you’re still holding onto your values and each other, it’s not over. If you are still breathing and trying, it’s not over. It’s not too late, because too late is a fake idea. The people around you will always be worth fighting for, as will your community, as will your humanity.

Kelly Hayes, all emphasis in original

Kelly’s newsletter reminds me, however cliche the reference, of that infamous parable about a young person walking along a coastline, picking up starfish who have washed up to shore and throwing them back into the waves. An older person — perhaps a parent, perhaps a grandparent, perhaps a total stranger — asks, “You can’t throw them all back in. Do you really think that’s going to make a difference?”

In response, the young person throws another starfish back into the ocean and says, “It made a difference to that one.”

You don’t have to change everything in order to have an impact. But there’s always a next right thing to do. You just have to find it.

  1. Texas Is a Lot More Queer Than You Think. I Am Too. (Olivia Messer for The Barbed Wire)

Every time we have a Republican in office doing predictably shitty garbage, there’s always some holier-than-thou poster who comes out to talk about how people in red states voted for whatever the garbage is, and therefore should be cut off and abandoned and basically told to suffer.

Putting aside that most of those states aren’t “red” so much as “gerrymandered to shit,” an issue that’s only going to get worse, those states are also, without fail, so much more diverse than people think. Or, as Olivia Messer writes:

Texas is one of the queerest states in the country. Only California has more LGBTQ+ identifying residents. Texas is home to more queer people than all the queer people in Canada. And more than double the number of queer New Yorkers. I had a Brooklyn roommate — a fabulous Italian cook, now a phenomenally talented drag queen — who used to enter my room with the greeting, “Hey, sweaty!” 

Now multiply that energy by 1.8 million.

Olivia Messer, all emphasis in original

People have been building community in the unlikeliest of places as long as there have been communities to make. Messer’s essay is a good reminder not to count anyone — or any place — out of the movement to build a better world.

  1. why grief work matters — and how tarot can help (meg jones wall for their newsletter)

YOU DIDN’T THINK I’D LET AN ENTIRE NEWSLETTER GO BY WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT GRIEF, RIGHT? Of course not.

I had the absolute joy of talking to Meg about their tarot work last year. When we spoke, one of the more interesting things they brought up was that key to the way they build tarot spreads is starting with, and discovering, the right question to ask in a particular moment. In this week’s letter, they wrote:

“even if you haven't experienced personal grief lately (a.k.a. a major loss, death, goodbye, ending, disappointment, transition, or change), we are all experiencing collective griefs at a catastrophic level every single day.

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we're grieving for the collective pain we're witnessing and experiencing, the resources or rest we don't have access to, the challenges in getting our needs met, the longing for comfort or safety or connection that feels out of reach. we're grieving stability. we're grieving creative energy and inspiration. and we're grieving for the things we must do, for the realities we're navigating, for just how goddamn hard everything is.”

Meg Jones Wall, all emphasis in original

Grieving for creative energy, for the time and the space and the desire to create, is exhausting, and miserable, and so hard. But it’s also, I think, a beautiful part of the cycle of creation. Meg reminds us that we are all, in one way or another, engaged in this universal work of grieving — just as I would remind you that we are all, in one way or another, engaged in the universal work of creativity. What that means to you might depend on the pull of a card, the stroke of a pen, or something different altogether. What matters is that it’s yours.

(Also, Meg is a delight. If you’re not subscribed to their newsletter, fix that!)

The only things I love more than creativity and community? Creating in community.

The only thing I love more than that? Creating in community while saying fuck you to fascism!

Described as “an urgent call to the arts community to unite in defiance of authoritarian forces sweeping the nation,” Fall of Freedom is “an open invitation to artists, creators, and communities to take part — and to celebrate the experiences, cultures, and identities that shape the fabric of our nation.” The goal, Folta writes, is to encourage creatives to collectively imagine new forms of resistance: through art, writing, or performance; in community spaces and cafes and museums; with an MFA or a set of kindergarten pencils. Folta writes,

“‘We make culture, and values emerge from that,’ [Hari] Kunzru said. ‘We’re sick of being dictated to—figuratively and literally. We are asserting our power to shape reality, and our solidarity with each other.’

Fall of Freedom promises to be a mass demonstration of art, solidarity, and resistance. It’s also about choosing to use our creativity and talents for something worthwhile. The role of art in a just society, Kunzru told me, is ‘to refuse to decorate dictator’s ball rooms.’”

James Folta, quoting Hari Kunzru, one of the organizers of Fall of Freedom

Wherever you look, wherever you are, whatever you know how to do, someone in your community is probably offering a way for you to lend your talents to this moment. And if you look around and see nothing, well — what can you create?

I know I sound like a broken record, but I’ll say it again: creating communities of care is part of the ways we use creativity as a force of good.

It probably sounds odd coming from a professional fundraiser, but I’ll be real: I don’t believe fundraising will save us. Individual donors, however mighty we are when we come together, cannot fix institutional, political, societal problems.

However, that doesn’t mean we can’t make an incredible difference in the short-term to help our communities in critical moments. In less than a week, a Portland coffee shop has raised more than $200,000 in small donations — some as little as just over $1 — to support neighbors who will lose their SNAP benefits on November 1.

Since Heretic went viral, more Portland-area coffee shops and businesses have followed their lead. Heretic has also stepped up their own commitment, pledging to offer free, no-questions-asked, no-proof-required breakfast to anyone who has lost SNAP benefits starting November 1. (Their donate page is still live, by the way — drop them a few dollars if you can!)

It starts with one suggestion. One click. One link. One person.

See you next week!

💜Shelly